Motivational, Inspirational

  Growing up when you do something nice for an elder thier prayer usually is "you will marry a rich husband" (chukwu ga enye gi di welu ego) we got programmed to think that the goal is "a rich husband" every now & then you hear things like  the beauty of a man is "his pocket " and the beauty of a woman is her character.  "A woman's education ends in the kitchen " this is the mindset we grew up with.  They taught us  that an "INDEPENDENT WOMAN" is a turn off or scares away suitors.  A good woman must be dependent on her husband to provide all her needs. Its not ok to be "THE WEALTHY WIFE" etc So today we have lots of untrained / mannerless young men devouring our well trained /well mannered daughters/ young women.  We have our daughters who will only pay attention to a man if he is well to do and our sons who may make great husbands but are yet to make it financially can't find beffitting wives 😂 When we have train...