Motivational, Inspirational

  My friend told me of His friend who died on Monday probably of HBP or cardiac arrest I have no idea but what caught my attention is how he died. His lil daughter just came to him and asked. 'daddy we didn't eat yesterday are we still not going to eat today? He just heaved put his head downwards and said to his daughter,  just give me some time let me think. His daughter returned and found him still in same position but then dead.  Now I'm thinking what so many families are going through (financial wise). Many lost their livelihood this year and have been thrown into turmoil.  I guess it suffices to say that in this country (most especially) you are enormously mistaken and myopic if you still think that 'Multiple streams of income isn't bae'  And let me shock you that anybody in this age & time who calls you 'Jack of all trade' has begging as his other stream of income or will soon start and will someday apologize to himself for grossly mistaken.  O...

  Growing up when you do something nice for an elder thier prayer usually is "you will marry a rich husband" (chukwu ga enye gi di welu ego) we got programmed to think that the goal is "a rich husband" every now & then you hear things like  the beauty of a man is "his pocket " and the beauty of a woman is her character.  "A woman's education ends in the kitchen " this is the mindset we grew up with.  They taught us  that an "INDEPENDENT WOMAN" is a turn off or scares away suitors.  A good woman must be dependent on her husband to provide all her needs. Its not ok to be "THE WEALTHY WIFE" etc So today we have lots of untrained / mannerless young men devouring our well trained /well mannered daughters/ young women.  We have our daughters who will only pay attention to a man if he is well to do and our sons who may make great husbands but are yet to make it financially can't find beffitting wives 😂 When we have train...

RAPE BY PRESSURE (the most common type of RAPE) a piece by KENE KUMASHE You start to touch her she says ooooh stop naw but instead You continue to touch and tease her Until she gives in BRO! NA RAPE BE THAT. You convince yourself that women don't know what they want. They say stop when they mean go on. Because girl A teased you when she said stop and you stopped and she said "Are you even a man? Thats it? You are gonna give up like that? It means you don't even want me etc DOESN'T MEAN IT APPLIES TO ALL WOMEN. (Besides if a girl says that it just shows the quality of men she's been with. Obviously she's used to bieng raped) can the Change start from you? Will you be the one to make the difference? By educating her to always say exactly what she means (wants) or NO? 2. You are in a position where you can oppress/intimidate her till she gives in. Common in work places, schools (especially higher institutions, religious houses etc. You want her, she says...

Stop scrolling I am talking to you. DON'T 'DWELL' IN A LIFE OF PAIN OUT OF YOUR OWN IGNORANCE. You are probably  alone right now perhaps  drunk and sick cos your "supposed boy (girl) friend hasn't returned your call meanwhile there's a guy (girl) whose call you haven't returned (NO THEY ARE NOT ALL THE SAME) What is Love if its not guarranteed? NEWS FLASH: stop chasing after people who don't love you and start returning love to those who have been loving you. Don't make the mistake of marrying a partner whose piority you are NOT and whose values dont align with yours. If you think LOVE IS BLIND 😂😂😂 (I am laughing in booanise) cos Marriage will perform the miracle 😂 your eyes go open by force. We will continue on this piece soonest cos i will hate to have to see you in pain ofcourse you can always get out once you decide you have had enough but why go through the ache when it could have been avoided in the first place. Continue readin...

Internet: Nobody gives you a chance until you start to make it Question: If no one gives you a chance how then will you ever start to make it? Me: (Everything we find on the internet or in the movies etc is not always true) so I say making it comes with someone giving you a chance. If you believe in God as I do I know what you are thinking now "its All God" and you are right but then He did it through SOMEONE. Life point:  All you ever need is one yes, and one day some one will say it to you. Someone will come along who totally believes in you no matter how much you think you don't measure up or maybe not even believe in You but somehow for some reason or NO REASON at all just makes it part of him to help you and keeps helping you for no matter how long you may need it. And when that one person comes along all the dots will comnect but till then keep working, keep your expectancy and Hope high and alive.  No matter how long it takes NEVER RUN OUT OF PATIENCE.  D...

Emotional Maturity L earn to have a grip of your emotions. Discipline/tame your tongue to resist the temptation to speak venom because that's how you feel. Embarking or acting on your emotions can in one second destroy an entire lifetime body of work and efforts. As I talk to you I am also talking to ME. We all need continuous emotional growth. Now read this; I asked her why did you fall out with your boss? And now he's fired you and we are back to square one which is you pestering me for help, She said I called him Non - progressive cos he's cheating my colleagues. (What a reason) I asked Of what? And she said we work same and he paid them N2k less than he  paid me.  So you decided to be thier mouth piece? Were you there when he hired them I asked, Are you privy to the conversation that led to their hire or the terms of contract? No you were not.  You just decided to allow your personal frustration rub all over you. You who lives  inside one kor...