Motivational, Inspirational

A little something I picked up online.... MARRIED OR NOT, YOU SHOULD READ THIS ... “When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her! ❝ For more Inspirational Quotes/Story Please visit www.khayceeokafor.com ❞ With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which s...

The only reason that challenge came your way is because you can Handle it! No one is tempted beyond their strength. it may seem overwhelming but you can Handle it! the picture below depicts a true story of a complete waste of pain on one hand on the other hand we are able to learn from it. the teenage girl couldn't  bear the pain of loosing her boy friend and worse to her girlfriend so she hung herself. I went through the comment box of the news page where I picked this up and found so much of Nothing. A disgrace to woman hood. really? someone commented that. She's a coward and selfish, by another commentator. but I say overwhelmed by Pain. too much of Beyonce If you ask me. sometimes our actions follow what our heart feeds on. they are role models and there is no limit to how much they impact on us young folks. Am Huge on Beyonce (not a secret) I mean I really was but I love My life too well to sing along when some of her songs plays on. infact let me quote one " I ...

Spent quality time chatting with my friends/followers/fans across my social media accounts. I completely enjoyed the entire time. Big thank you to you guys for the wonderful opportunity to meet you. I look forward to a next time.   I also want to use this time to Deeply apologize to all my sweet- peas who felt I have in the Past Ignored or snubbed them. I have no excuse to have made you feel any less than you really mean to me (VITAL). Please know that I have already repented and you will find this new me completely interesting.   But in my defense (you know as a lawyer, defensive is part of the package lol) I was not "PROUDING" (am just a little bit of a local, trying to catch-up with city, forget the packaging o, lol) but most importantly, I am not always on line. I chat with router/WiFi ONLY and on purpose. We all have things that we struggle with. mine is difficulty in controling the urge to check out that red light while driving (you know how so interesting s...

YOU CAN AND WILL GET OVER IT. she cries because her baby is being buried. I can't imagine her pain  I know, It is so much pain but it wasn't fashioned to defeat you, you don't see it now but we grow most in our darkest moment. so don't just go through it, grow through it.    Before a seed can multiply it must first be buried in the dark "the soil" When we go through dark times it is so that we can germinate into a plant. most happy people have been through the toughest situations in life. Most brilliant ideas are sometimes born in our times of despair. God wants to pay you back for those ashes, don't waste the pain. Let your attitude be, God I don't Understand it, It wasn't Fair, I don't deserve it NEVERTHLESS I trust you to bring me Beauty out of this ashes. The renowned movement MADD (Mothers against drunk driving) was born out of the Pain of a mother whose only child was killed by a drunk driver. Turn your pain to your gain ...

 Sweet MoMa! Today I Appreciatively celebrate the Awesome Woman who rocked Cry Cry Me. Was told  I was a "Cricket Baby" HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOTHER! you so sweet Indeed! A true Epitome of African Beauty. One Word Moma! AMAZON! should you see her today: kindly cover her with a thousand kisses. A gift from her most beloved daughter oh no child (*Naw masiblings are gon wana kee me) well! yeah! I said mine, you can say yours, duhhh! To you sweet -pea are you going to wait till she drops before you share your thoughts of love with her? you may say Oh! you don't know my mother, she's not that kinda woman, she is not good at receiving affectionate words, she is too emotionally strong, she wont cry bla bla bla...(yeah I absolutely can relate with that! mine too...) but you can teach her. there you go again " that is who she is Khaycee you cant teach an old dog new tricks, well, yeah, I would say it depends on what kinda dog you have, no no no It depends on the way you ...

Yes El be warned! U may be the boss but U can still be warned. LOL!  It is interesting how your friends will use your own Write-up against you.lol  When I said "Don't engage in battles that have no spoils" I meant it. Regardless of the urge, I will not get mad and curse out a fellow road user that chanced me in traffic or strive the road with him, what if I get stretch mark in such an attempt? so much for revenge right? (I know some road users deserves to be straightened out) but if there is no spoil I wont bother. Neither will I rage over a bus driver/Conductor that took me past way my bus-stop after I must have been screaming "Abule... Bus-stop OWA O' right from 2 bustops away. If I "changeam for am" what will my spoil be? (hey! am the one rushing to my office, he is the one already in his office "the road) But what I fail to understand is why my friend will say that the party we were all set for has "No Spoils" that is weird ...

Have you seen this Video? it's a child crying bitterly and raging about how much she doesn't want to get old like Grandma (yeah that got me singing Forever young; I wanna be forever young ) I laughed I must confess , I laughed so hard that I needed to wipe tears off my face (yeah! I always tear up when I laugh hard.you dont want to get me started cos really you don't wanna see, my face gets so messed up with tears and I don't Even care because I love Laughter & I sure do know how to enjoy it) So back to the point I found this video Interestingly Funny am sure you too. but what got me Concerned is the fact I don't know If afterwards the Adult who taped this explained this facts to this beautiful, cute, little, "Innocent" princess: that Growth is a beautiful thing and Old age a blessing (Old age is a crown of glory if it is found in the way of righteousness. Prov 16:31 ). I started to wonder could this have been the case of one of...

  YaaY! And here is Me Powerfully announcing that out NOW! is the Swahili (video) version of my home girl's ( Yemi Alade ) NAGODE! Yeah! I spent yesterday savouring it. Yay! did u see your girl? (Me naw ‪#‎ winks‬ . Digging it. Lol. Yeah! d happy, smiley, jumpy jumpy! Lol. Yeah thatz me. Hahahahahaha. I like being happy! & I am always happy. Lol Ride on girl! we are way right behind you! the first`shoot of Nagode second shoot Of Nagode (Swahili version)

Introducing Noela Nwankwo the Salad Munch Giale. (www.youtube/Noela Nwankwo - Salad Munch) https://youtu.be/BzgvgF9Evx4 Yesooo! you remember how much I blabbed about taking small small steps this year to keep the movement going yes! am glad its happening in the lives of "us" am doing it, my friends are doing it and I know that you too is doing it. you can have the attitude of Oh! there is nothing that I can do" am limited where I am; poor me! there is nothing to do! No baby there is always something to do. look around, if you haven't seen, look again, keep looking till you see. As a student there is always something to do. How much time do you spend on social media? do you know you can turn that into money? since that is your passion "keeping updates of celebrities and your friends" (well don't wanna use the phrase celebrity gossip). sweet-pea Linda Ikeji turned millionaire by gossiping the lives of others and you and I spend time investing in it. B...

  Its in you! ....and let your heart cheer you in the days of your youth. Walk in the ways of your heart... (Ecclesiastes) when I registered my intent to Study Law in Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), our most respected, "revered" dearest, scholarly family friend Adviced me in all honesty to change to an eastern school his reasons where solid and protective. He meant well but hey! its not his dream, its my dream.  Of-course he is older and wiser but He doesn't feel what I feel, even your dear parents/spouse can't feel the passion that whelms in you... when I graduated from OAU he was first to dance in praise to the alter. He liked it. lol. let's pause here sweet-pea we will get back to this later. It is a beautiful thing to surround yourself with great counsels and as well to seek advice but have you noticed that almost every one has some advice to give concerning everything? and they give it so confidently that you begin to doubt all that you know lo...

I've been laughing since I got this joke.....but are we really this bad? ANGELS: Father! We are tired of these Nigerians in heaven. GOD: What have they done this time? ANGEL: Everything!They don't listen to instructions. They don't obey traffic rules. They don't wait for their turn in anything. They are completely reckless! GOD: Then we better send them to hell! (Calls the Devil). Hello.. SATAN: Hello my creator and master, pls call me later. There's an issue I'm trying to resolve. Ten (10) minutes later: GOD: Hello Lucifer. SATAN: Your Lordship my father! I'll call you back. The issue has turned into a crisis ooo! An hour later: SATAN: Hello? GOD: What's going on over there? SATAN: It's the Nigerians I have with me in hell oooo! (He stammers),they... they... they have quenched the fire in hell and installed air conditioner. Lol thanks @Chinazor Obi for Sharing @ Nonso Okudo (well! whatever that means) lol. Am trying to e...

Status! I smile even when I don't feel like with time I will feel like It is easy to go through life feeling Intimidated or Inferior especially in this days of Social Network/Media where everybody puts their daily living on the showcase (you and I inclusive lol). we all at some point have felt Intimidated by other people's life (now U gondenyit?) Many times we are so pressured by this "intimidation" that we act on them. let me give you a typical A friend on facebook put up a picture of h-self inside ........ Aircraft (abeg I modified o before some one will carat me lol) and tagged it "On board to Dubai" Now that Airline flies only local and at that only few locations locally. I wondered what could have warranted such lie? could it be pressure from intimidation? yeah! all my friends are going international, I need to pull me some stunt. perhaps o he was really on His way to Dubai but in a local connecting flight, you never can tell (okay Now am beginni...

Did I mention that the drop dead gorgeous/beauty love charity too just like mua. so she joined me for a fun time visit at the down syndrome home in Adegoke Surulere of Lagos State Nigeria. Now back to where we stopped on the gist. this is what I had and have to say about her Aunt's failling marriage due to LOVE LUST: No better way to say it than to put it in the exact words of my favourite marriage guru himself Mort Fertel. ENJOY the read "How do you know if you married the right person? Here's the answer. EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love - because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off ...

  Thanks Sweet-pea (UGOO SKIDO):   Am glad you found it inspiring. Its a great thing to be reminded to seek the truth that sets free. (and you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free. In-order words it is the truth that you know that sets you free. Let me make it practical. If you don't know that your friend lied to her parents that she's with you on a movie nite while she's on to something else you cant cover up for her should her parents call you. (hahahaha I know you do that, lol  lie lie geh) If you don't know 1+1 is 2 you will fail it (Olodo level hahahaha). lol. you  are in debt and about to loose your bicycle because you used it as collateral to borrow money. at this point you have no idea that your grandfather left you huge amount in his will after he passed, that could clear all your debts and still set you up big time. the money is yours but it can't set you free from the debt because you don't know that you have it. that  Igno...

Hi Sweet pea! meet Mariam the drop dead gorgeous/ beauty who said/says she is my number one FAN/ Blog Reader.  met over the weekend and she is completely awesome.  In the course of our many many gist lol (you know girls na) she told me loads of things that weighed heavy on her mind, how I wish I could tell you all about it but I completely respect the Privacy of my Sweet-peas, so.... (smiles) am gonna have to Modify and summarize.  she is concerned about her relationship and that of her Aunty's (Marriage) which is about to go Kaboom! reason? Love lost. Aunt thinks she made a mistake in her choice of Partner. you know how it is said "I think I married the Wrong person" Awwwww! that one is a banger! so now Pretty Mariam is terrified not to make same mistake. she is a very Spiritual girl, a very God fearing girl who understands the need to seek the guidance of spiritual leaders in vital decisions such as this "Life Partner"    And now goes your girl ...

Don't they look like long life friends here? Am having a hard time with whatagwan between this two "over-grown babies" lol of two matured "parents"  when I heard of their scuffle my mind strayed completly to good growing up days. I laughed so loud that you could literally feel my soul. (am still laughing) Break Bottle on your friend's head? lol that sounds like when I was 5years old to about 7years. Then if someone annoyed you, you fight, throw yourselves on the ground and feed each other sand, lol (oya stop looking at me like am alone in this experience, you did it too, lol) somehow  I thought everyone is growing with age lol. how was I to know that some folks are still locked up back there, lol. This experience inspires me to talk today about "KEEPING STRIFE OUT" one of the biggest challenge, we face in life is "getting along with people" everyone is different, with different personalities/temperament/backgrounds with diverse...

If you can laugh at it, you can live with it. And KLINT D DRUNK is still drunk with funny! lol. He made us laugh so hard that you almost don't remember to be poise. We laughed with no decorum.  Now let me tell you alittle bit about laughter baby; Did you know that people who laugh live longer? It’s true. Proverbs 14:30 says, “A relaxed attitude lengthens a man’s life.” (TLB) Humor is an amazing thing. It’s a tension dissolver. It’s an antidote to anxiety. It’s just like a tranquilizer, but without any troublesome side effects. And it’s free! You don’t even need a prescription. Laughter is life’s shock absorber. If you want to have less stress in your life, learn to laugh at your circumstances. Somehow, you must find the fun in the frustrating. Someone once asked President Lincoln how he handled all the stresses of the Civil War. He said, “If it hadn’t been for laughter, I could not have made it.” Many famous comedians grew up in poor neighborhoods with lo...

"having the right mentality"  (steps to achieving your goal)the first one to be conquered is your mind. if you can conquer your mind you can conquer anything Our mind-set and Philosophy in life is a huge factor in determining our outcome in life, Who we become. If you can see it in your mind, you can achieve it. If you can imagine it, it is possible. Every Champion has first in His mind be champion. You must first have lived it again and again in your mind. If only we can get our minds going in the right direction. The quality of your mentality as well. You cannot live a positive life with a negative mentality. To achieve a goal u must first believe that you "can". The how is not important as you can! If you don't have the right mindset opportunities that you have been awaiting will slip by you and you won't even know it. If your mind is in the right direction you cannot be stopped (No! not by any negative occurrences). when negative things happe...

Am so sorry sweetheart (Princess Kashy) that I haven't responded to your mail.... and thank you for the opportunity. Couldn't blog much yesterday. Had fully packed schedule. Thanks to Chidi we had very interesting casual-business time with our friends from South Africa just before they headed back. When I started blogging, little did I know things will pick up so fast but one thing I had in mind was consistency and faith. And these principles were so elaborated on, by my friends yesterday. I am still trying to upload the video of this meeting because it is so crucial to me that I share the inspiring words that flowed from this established business gurus (c.e.os of Global brands) They highlighted great steps to "achieving your goals" they spoke with so much wisdom that I so felt wise. Lol. Its a beautiful year.

 Hi Sweet pea! Just live your life. see eh! who you are now and whom you used to be and the future you is all part of God's plan. As God trusting people we should understand that our lives are orchestrated by Him.   Determined Purpose of God. while you make efforts to be better QUIT beating yourself up about your imperfections/addictions. stop allowing people to use it against you. people will always judge but you need to have a clear understanding   that God's ways are different. there are times God takes us from A to B and then all the way to W and then back to C. In my own life for instance I have been Judged because I have lived! I have lived righteous, I have lived sin, I have been Spiritual and I have been Carnal, I have been nude and I have been Covered, But in all that I have ever been Rightful or Sinful, I have Never been REGRETFUL because every part of what I have been fashioned me to who I am Now and will be, in Accordance with my (Pre)deter...

Customer care versus My Emotions. Walked into my bank this morning and the customer service executive was so cold and unfriendly. Instantly I could feel my emotions rising, I wanted to give her a piece of my mind (lol) tell her how bad she's acting lol, and go on and on (lol). If I did that what will be my reward? I asked me, is it a battle worth fighting? although I completely had my emotions rising to my nose I made a decision not to get on board. hahaha. and because I didn't get on board with my Feelings I was able to think straight, went to another department and got so very well attended to. but that wasn't easy sha but it was a good thing "I Left trash for Lawma" because Now I can laugh about it. lol

leave the past alone to Rest in Peace Sweetheart, Stop discussing your pain. you are trying to heal, stop opening the wound by talking about it. Bury the past and leave it alone to rest in peace. Stop doing memorial for it. You are hurting yourself even more.

take a moment from the stress of the day! this may make you laugh but there is a lesson in it! will get back to it in a jiffy!

You can be pitiful or powerful but you cannot be the both   Its simple!  Let it Go!   how?  Stop calling Emeka, Abiodun, Haruna, Smith (that list of friends you have) to call to talk about *over and over again*, your failures, your mistakes, your frustrations, your regrets, shortcomings, your pain. how you think you are never gonna get well or make it. Oh poor me! you want everyone to pity you because of your weakness? Stop emphasizing on your weaknesses.  what you give power to come alive is what you focus on. you have heard practice makes perfect so is weaknesses. you practice and talk about your weakneses everyday, you start to make it perfect. even if you feel you cannot make it or not good enough for something dont go about talking and gisting about it. broadcasting it to people even to your friends. Oh yes! this leads me to I CAN DO ability. but lets leave that to next time. Thanks sweet-pea. you read and I enjoyed that you re...

 contd; You may be a product of your past but not a Prisoner of your past. Aha! sweethpea! we continue from where we stopped; So I said Drop it! let go of all those negative occurrences in your life. that person that betrayed you and broke your heart,, hurt you once don't allow them to keep at it by Thinking about it. every time that mistake you made or that betrayal or loss, misfortune, crosses the theater of your mind do yourself a huge favour, change the Chanel . Don't go grab a chair, a bowl of pop-corn and watch the movie for another 15minutes. As you think about it you will feel exactly the same emotions as if it were fresh. you made a mistake sometime back and so? you are not defined by your past. you are prepared by your past. everything you have been through has deposited something in you. you may not realize it but you came out wiser, stronger, confident, more experienced. That prepared you for something else. Besides if you thrust That Mistake to God He kn...

  Sweetpea, Don't go through Life being a prisoner of your past, I can hardly tell of anyone who hasn't had a negative thing happen to them, from minor to major, people did us wrong, someone betrayed you, a niegbhour's child was rude to you, the woman in the market did not sell well to you, the company laid you off, lost a business/opportunity/deal etc. It is easy to go through life offended, in self pity, Oh poor me attitude,  Blaming others, blaming ourselves and even blaming God, Because we are always looking back, reliving the negative, we end up carrying around all these baggages that weighs us down. If we go to take a flight we couldn't afford it because we have 27 bags of Hurts, unforgiveness, mistakes from the past weighing us down. one of the best things that we can do is Drop it! whether it happened 20years ago or 20minutes ago don't carry negative baggage from yesterday into today. We will hardly live victorious lives if we keep reliving what didn...