My FAVORITE achievement the year 2015 is EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE:
understanding better how to discipline negative Emotions (feelings) in life as humans our feelings will always fight to rule us/have its way. someone is rude or offends you, the temptation will arise to hold a grudge or give them a piece of your mind but you have to discipline that negative emotions and forgive them anyway or bite your tongue and walk away. you learn to ONLY engage in battles that have SPOILS. you don't waste your energy fighting or being in an argument that has no reward. if you expend your energy fighting a worthless battle you will soon realize that you have wasted your strength when the battle that involves your destiny arrives example you are holding a grudge for someone over a football argument the last premier league match. you don't buy from that store over there because 10years ago the man gave you dirty 10naira while you gave him clean note or short changed you. may I break it to you that the man who did that has forgotten and moved on or perhaps he is sunbathing in Miami, lol. when things don't go your way you will feel like being discouraged and throw "A PITY PARTY" discipline that emotion and keep a good attitude anyway. learn to keep somethings inside no matter how hard it is. we have to understand that its when we do the hard things in life that God is DEVELOPING OUR CHARACTER. if we go about following our feelings we will make poor choices in life and that leads to deep regrets and unfulfillment. let me make it practical you unfollowed your favorite because he is not following you back (but of course YOU CAN UNFOLLOW WHAT DOESN'T INSPIRE) you slap your boss because he acted in a way that made you feel like slapping him. you gave your spouse/friend a piece of your mind because he/she just offended you we call it being frank but i say its being insensitive and emotionally unintelligent. IF YOU GO ABOUT SPEAKING YOUR MIND (we call it i poured out my mind) WHENEVER YOU ARE OFFENDED YOU WILL END UP HAVING NO MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP IN your LIFE.
thank you! Am happy you took a minute of your time to read.
understanding better how to discipline negative Emotions (feelings) in life as humans our feelings will always fight to rule us/have its way. someone is rude or offends you, the temptation will arise to hold a grudge or give them a piece of your mind but you have to discipline that negative emotions and forgive them anyway or bite your tongue and walk away. you learn to ONLY engage in battles that have SPOILS. you don't waste your energy fighting or being in an argument that has no reward. if you expend your energy fighting a worthless battle you will soon realize that you have wasted your strength when the battle that involves your destiny arrives example you are holding a grudge for someone over a football argument the last premier league match. you don't buy from that store over there because 10years ago the man gave you dirty 10naira while you gave him clean note or short changed you. may I break it to you that the man who did that has forgotten and moved on or perhaps he is sunbathing in Miami, lol. when things don't go your way you will feel like being discouraged and throw "A PITY PARTY" discipline that emotion and keep a good attitude anyway. learn to keep somethings inside no matter how hard it is. we have to understand that its when we do the hard things in life that God is DEVELOPING OUR CHARACTER. if we go about following our feelings we will make poor choices in life and that leads to deep regrets and unfulfillment. let me make it practical you unfollowed your favorite because he is not following you back (but of course YOU CAN UNFOLLOW WHAT DOESN'T INSPIRE) you slap your boss because he acted in a way that made you feel like slapping him. you gave your spouse/friend a piece of your mind because he/she just offended you we call it being frank but i say its being insensitive and emotionally unintelligent. IF YOU GO ABOUT SPEAKING YOUR MIND (we call it i poured out my mind) WHENEVER YOU ARE OFFENDED YOU WILL END UP HAVING NO MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP IN your LIFE.
thank you! Am happy you took a minute of your time to read.
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