| Don't they look like long life friends here? |
Am having a hard time with whatagwan between this two "over-grown babies" lol of two matured "parents" when I heard of their scuffle my mind strayed completly to good growing up days. I laughed so loud that you could literally feel my soul. (am still laughing) Break Bottle on your friend's head? lol that sounds like when I was 5years old to about 7years. Then if someone annoyed you, you fight, throw yourselves on the ground and feed each other sand, lol (oya stop looking at me like am alone in this experience, you did it too, lol) somehow I thought everyone is growing with age lol. how was I to know that some folks are still locked up back there, lol.
This experience inspires me to talk today about "KEEPING STRIFE OUT"
one of the biggest challenge, we face in life is "getting along with people" everyone is different, with different personalities/temperament/backgrounds with diverse Life orientation this makes it easy to always find ourselves in conflict with people.
have you ever walked into a room full of people who you have never met but you could feel discord, the tension tells you something is not right? Yeah that's what am talking about, the spirit of strife. Truth be said your spouse, you love him, you cant live without him but sometimes you just cant bare to choke him out. lol . a presenter once asked Bill Graham if he had ever thought of Divorce he said DIVORCE No but MUDER? Yes lol this is cos we are humans and
As humans we are always tempted to live out our anger, argue our points, prove that we are right etc, sweet-pea let me remind you "being right is over-rated" you can be right your entire life and have no one at your funeral, you can be right and still sleep on the couch (lol, Husbands in copy) you can be right and be Miserable. you can always win the arguments, prove your points but you don't realize its damaging your relationships.
A matured person walks away when everything in you is telling you to have a go at that offense. Yes! it takes a matured person to overlook an offense. sometimes you have to let other people think they are right even though they are wrong. don't always try to straighten people out.
awww sweetpea let me stop for now will be right back to continue
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