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Came across this on Facebook and thought to share my View of which I will appreciate you share yours in the comment box. 

So my Thought exactly is If we have to walk away all the time from Everyone and anyone who disrespects us then we will have nobody in our lives including Family because everyone will also walk away from us, you know why? your guess is as good as mine, WE HUMANS ARE BUNCH OF IMPERFECT PEOPLE struggling to meet up with AVERAGE talk-more of PERFECT. Even Married folks and couples who are so in love sometimes disrespects one another intentionally and unintentionally because you can't keep it together one hundred percent all the time. now let me ask Will you "walk away" from your child for disrespecting you? oh hold on! lets take it the other way round, what if your parents walked away from you the time(s) you disrespected them while growing up.

Now here is the news flash! God has never walked away from us because we disrespect him! (just before you start denying, lol, remember that time you were pinging in Church during sermon, lol or playing during prayer time, aha! that moment you sneaked away to pick a call' said it was important of course more important than Bro J? lol etc) Even on the cross Jesus said Father forgive them for they know not what they are doing. YUP!  well!: my point being LOVE COVERS A MULTITUDE OF BULLSHIT.

Now my take is WE need to be matured enough to know people who needs to be walked away from and exactly when to irrespective of the role they play in your life. Family or not (pls read footnote) because some family members deserves to be related with from afar. That once in a year Family re-union is all you owe them. smile with them and reply I love you too and end it right there, no further, likewise some friends. Be wise enough to know when someone's part in your life/destiny is played out and be strong enough to let them go or walk away.

Besides some of us are so touchy that they construe every behavior that doesn't go the way they want as being disrespectful. there are times God puts people in our lives to help grow our character. we will always have people in our lives who gets on our nerves and tend to disrespect us  till you learn to get over it and stop being so Touchy.

IMPORTANT NOTE:
when I say Walk away from people whose part is over and done in your destiny It doesn't include Married people. I Love to break it to you darling. YOU ARE STUCK! LOL. before you start to say Hallelujah! I just got my word from the Lord, now am gonna walk away from this problematic Marriage. LOL. nope stay and fix it. (but of-course am all for keeping a distance and praying/fixing the marriage from there if you are in any Emotional or physical danger). KHAYCEE OKAFOR

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