Motivational, Inspirational

Redcar pet moment  I always get this surprise response from my keneddicts when I respond to their dm . Its surprises them that I respond cos "other people" "other celebrities" hardly do.  My response has always been "well I am not "other people" "other celebrities" I am Kene, human like you who in time past till present has been helped by people whom other people has looked down on. If there's anything I have learnt is to NEVER look down on anybody.  An old friend told me last week if "I knew you will be Kene today would have locked you down since way before" after I laughed hard I responded if you locked me down then I probably won't be Kene today. The point is don't look down on anybody NOT EVEN YOURSELF yes don't look down on yourself. Because even you do not know what tomorrow holds for you. My sister was telling me the other day how the guy who used to be their secretary in the bank is now a GM (general ...

There's beauty in starting again - letting go It broke my heart when I heard a relative of mine who was 7months pregnant was murdered by her hubby (no husband, this one no be hubby biko) just lastweek. . There will always be something better than what you lost or should loose (beta tin no dey finish for market). Enduring an abusive, toxic relationship is unfair to yourself. Stop thinking this is the best I can ever get. Believe me there is always someone/something better. Don't give up your opportunity to be better (happy) because you are worried about societal " labels" the society will label me a divorcee, family will call me single. Friends will call me jobless if I loose this job.  so you do/endure the most demeaning & brutal things to stand your position. Weeks ago my brother - in law " dashed me this amazing android phone. I can't get over how much I love the phone camera as I was gushing about the pic quality my sister asked me "is it bet...

Kene, Tiwa Savage They can't stop you. Only YOU can stop yourself. Oftentimes in our quest to succeed we come across different kinds of people who say a whole lot of things to discourage/discredit us. the mistake we make is that we let these things take root in our spirit, so deep that we begin to believe them and possibly live by them and BOOM! thats how we limit ourselves and get stuck in life. Now let me break it to you sweet-pea.... Nobody great and successful in this life ever got to where they are without having people and situations at different times trying to discourage or reject them. The truth is people will always come along who will make you feel 'you are not good enough, will never be good enough' and you don't fit in. Here is the trick "you either believe it and wallow in self pity" tell yourself oh! I'm not good enough... Nobody wants me .... I'm such a looser in life, and go on and on OR you can do what Oprah Winfrey di...

Lets quit being yoyo christians sweetpeas. The kind that is so full of joy & thanks when things Are right but resentful & bitter when things go wrong. Here's the point a girl is trying to make "stop loosing faith every time things go wrong. Keep a steady attitude of faith. If we don't face difficulties we can't grow. Exams are not punishments they are necessary steps to elevate us, exams- that's exactly what difficult times are & till you pass you will keep repeating SAME TRIALS. Now hear this "the God in the mountain is still same in the Valley. The God in good times is still The God in Bad times. He never Changes. He will not let anything go wrong if in the end it's not for our good. 💋💃🏼 (with so much merry in my heart) have a fantastic evening. KENE Okafor www.khayceeokafor.blogspot.com

This is the reason i tell women (people)to get out. "Get the hell out" people marry and divorce and marry again (its not a big deal again, in a world filled with so much cruelty, decadence & filth)The pain of the abuse you endure is ONLY FELT BY YOU" and not the society who you fear will stigmatize "brand" you a divorcee. The children you are trying to protect or being sensitive to, will grow up dysfunctional (dis functional ) anyway. Whats the protection and healthiness in reliving a battery experience. Biko this English is too much in plain English "how healthy (anyway) is it for children growing up watching their father beat, pound, punch their mother every day? Will you not rather find another loving man/woman to show your children how to love? even better remain single. Do you not realize how special you are. Even a bigger truth, " how do you intend to raise happy children when you are not happy yourself" a legal maxim says "you can...