you cant give what you dont have

This is the reason i tell women (people)to get out. "Get the hell out" people marry and divorce and marry again (its not a big deal again, in a world filled with so much cruelty, decadence & filth)The pain of the abuse you endure is ONLY FELT BY YOU" and not the society who you fear will stigmatize "brand" you a divorcee. The children you are trying to protect or being sensitive to, will grow up dysfunctional (dis functional ) anyway. Whats the protection and healthiness in reliving a battery experience. Biko this English is too much in plain English "how healthy (anyway) is it for children growing up watching their father beat, pound, punch their mother every day? Will you not rather find another loving man/woman to show your children how to love? even better remain single. Do you not realize how special you are. Even a bigger truth, " how do you intend to raise happy children when you are not happy yourself" a legal maxim says "you can't give what you don't have" you can't give love that you don't have.

Try not to blame the society for your pains that makes it worse. You grow to a point you know "you are the only one who knows whats best for you (if you are honest with yourself) Not your parents (family) and certainly not your society. Purge yourself of that believe that " love is enough" or love is blind" love is all we need" etc love in this context I mean "romantic Love" am in love kinda love "mtschew" WAKEUP!!!!!! (Hey! Hollit! I didn't say you don't need "love" am only saying "you need more than love" marriage is beyond love.

Let me just end this already cos I can go on and on. Most importantly Just learn to follow God MORE. Him alone gives grace

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