RAPE BY PRESSURE (the most common type of RAPE) a piece by KENE KUMASHE
You start to touch her she says ooooh stop naw but instead You continue to touch and tease her
Until she gives in BRO! NA RAPE BE THAT. You convince yourself that women don't know what they want. They say stop when they mean go on.
Because girl A teased you when she said stop and you stopped and she said "Are you even a man? Thats it? You are gonna give up like that? It means you don't even want me etc DOESN'T MEAN IT APPLIES TO ALL WOMEN. (Besides if a girl says that it just shows the quality of men she's been with. Obviously she's used to bieng raped) can the Change start from you? Will you be the one to make the difference? By educating her to always say exactly what she means (wants) or NO?
2. You are in a position where you can oppress/intimidate her till she gives in. Common in work places, schools (especially higher institutions, religious houses etc.
You want her, she says No, so you start treating her adversely, with hostility, coldness, embarrassment, humiliation ,deprivation, Denial etc untill she gives in. You are a danm RAPIST. You convince yourself you didn't force her.
I can go on and point out incidences (examples) but lets stop at these 2 👆
I write this with somuch pain in my heart because the society is not about to change from this. You know why? most people who are in positions to effect a change are guilty of this crimes or are benefitting from it or pretend to have thier hands tied cos thier loved ones are perpetrators of this evil. So you see regardless of how much we talk about it, it feels like we are stuck in a loop.
Perhaps if our mothers/parents can start NOW to educate thier little ones drastically maybe there will be hope in the future.
Please leave a comment. Thank you
You start to touch her she says ooooh stop naw but instead You continue to touch and tease her
Until she gives in BRO! NA RAPE BE THAT. You convince yourself that women don't know what they want. They say stop when they mean go on.
Because girl A teased you when she said stop and you stopped and she said "Are you even a man? Thats it? You are gonna give up like that? It means you don't even want me etc DOESN'T MEAN IT APPLIES TO ALL WOMEN. (Besides if a girl says that it just shows the quality of men she's been with. Obviously she's used to bieng raped) can the Change start from you? Will you be the one to make the difference? By educating her to always say exactly what she means (wants) or NO?
2. You are in a position where you can oppress/intimidate her till she gives in. Common in work places, schools (especially higher institutions, religious houses etc.
You want her, she says No, so you start treating her adversely, with hostility, coldness, embarrassment, humiliation ,deprivation, Denial etc untill she gives in. You are a danm RAPIST. You convince yourself you didn't force her.
I can go on and point out incidences (examples) but lets stop at these 2 👆
I write this with somuch pain in my heart because the society is not about to change from this. You know why? most people who are in positions to effect a change are guilty of this crimes or are benefitting from it or pretend to have thier hands tied cos thier loved ones are perpetrators of this evil. So you see regardless of how much we talk about it, it feels like we are stuck in a loop.
Perhaps if our mothers/parents can start NOW to educate thier little ones drastically maybe there will be hope in the future.
Please leave a comment. Thank you
It is terrible... how can we help young women to feel safe again?
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