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There's beauty in starting again - letting go
It broke my heart when I heard a relative of mine who was 7months pregnant was murdered by her hubby (no husband, this one no be hubby biko) just lastweek. .

There will always be something better than what you lost or should loose (beta tin no dey finish for market). Enduring an abusive, toxic relationship is unfair to yourself. Stop thinking this is the best I can ever get. Believe me there is always someone/something better. Don't give up your opportunity to be better (happy) because you are worried about societal " labels" the society will label me a divorcee, family will call me single. Friends will call me jobless if I loose this job.  so you do/endure the most demeaning & brutal things to stand your position. Weeks ago my brother - in law " dashed me this amazing android phone. I can't get over how much I love the phone camera as I was gushing about the pic quality my sister asked me "is it better than your iPhone? I said where is that iPhone sef then I replied far better. My response got me thinking, once it used to be Nokia window phone that i loved. Then blackberry became the phone, I had the best "blackberry porsche" my friend Destiny said if you ever try iPhone you won't use any other phone it's even better than that your Porsche. I said no phone will be better than Porsche do you know how expensive and on and on,  guess what? I tried iPhone after it was forced down my throat as a gift  and Omg! I couldn't stop being grateful to my friend for the iPhone. Now my boss said you should get an android it's the best, I replied what kinda trick is that? And hey! look at me thinking life is imperfect without an android. Now this is my point *beta tin no dey finish for market* starting again is never easy but eventually it breeds so much beauty. Get-away Now that you can. There's someone out there who will love you as should... a better job that will give you peace and more money sef. Stop *dilldallying* (lol my mother's English.
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