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When are you considered married?

Seriously Its confusing

Please Read carefully this dialogue (btw A &B) and give your opinion

Phone rings and A picks up
A - Hello B
B - Hi A. How are you and how is your husband?
A - we all good o
B - when is your church wedding
A - oh we postponed it from this month till further notice
B - Ah why naw?...... anyway hope you are still keeping yourself pure
A - Pure?  how do you mean pure?
B - I mean S*x na Hope you are not having sex with your husband yet.
A - Ah I thought we are married already
B - Noooooo No. Not until aftet your wedding. You are supposed to keep your bed undefined till after your church wedding (Then they argue and argue)

A - anyway thank you so much B for your opinion
B - you're welcome A. Have s nice day. My regards to your husband
A - there you go again calling him my husband. You just said he's not my husband till after church wedding
B - No he's your husband just that there are certain things that are yours you shouldn't expose to him
A - Now am confused

.................It goes on and on

Please my people help me, is He entitled to you wholly after traditional wedding or partially till after church wedding?

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